Monday, April 14, 2008

Happy 50th Anniversary, Grandma & Grandpa! (Part 1)

Grandma & Grandpa Schurman will be married for 50 years on Friday. We celebrated this weekend with family pictures, lunch/afternoon at Deb's house, and dinner at House of Kobe...22 people are in our family now, wow! On Sunday, we went to Grandma & Grandpa's church, then had a nice lunch with Mom & Dad's siblings. After that, we had an open house party for friends, extended family, and church staff. Here are a few (too many!) pictures & comments from the weekend:



Aunt Diane hasn't seen Alex since Christmas time!
Uncle Greg has seen Alex, but this is his first time holding Alex.
Mommy & Daddy at House of Kobe
Alex was fascinated by the chef.
He watched everything very intently.

Grandma got to spend a lot of cuddle time with Alex.
Grandma & Grandpa look at their new scrapbooks.
Kathryn
Matthew

The kids table had a great, funny chef to keep them entertained.
Diane, David, and the ever-present dog bone...which later ended up on the grill
...and also made several appearances on Sunday.
Mom & Dad


Deb, Alexander, Tony

Alex got his first taste of food. Uncle David fed him a teeny, tiny bite of rainbow sherbet.
Mommy was across the room, so I've only seen his face in pictures. Darn!
I wouldn't have chosen to do this yet, and I would have (selfishly) chosen to be the one to give him food for the first time, but I suppose most Schurman family children have received their first real spoonful of food from an aunt or uncle...might as well carry on that tradition.








Happy 39th Anniversary, Grandma & Papa!

Grandma & Papa celebrated their 39th wedding anniversary on Friday. We're celebrating with them next weekend. Mommy & Alex spent some time at their house on Friday just for fun. Here are a few pics...




Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Alex's "Green" Bum

All right. If you survived that last post, the one where I vented all my frustrations, I'm impressed. I would think you'd have clicked the red x in the upper right corner and never come back to this blog.

Let's move on to a happier subject. At least it makes me happy.
Cloth Diapers.

Yep, I love 'em. I'm slowly "going green" and making more environmentally friendly choices. It's better for us, and it's better for God's world.
I'm about to ramble on for about 16 hours, so here's your warning...stop now if you don't really care! ;)

Many people thought I was crazy to attempt the cloth diapers, but I truly, truly love 'em. I know some of you thought I'd give it up after a few weeks, but I'm pretty confident that won't be happening. Now, before you throw me in the looney bin, you should know what a cloth diaper looks like these days, outside and inside:
This is all one piece, and it's just as easy as a disposable in almost every way. Instead of sticky tabs, it has velcro tabs. The outside is a thin, waterproof, breathable, nylon-like material called PUL. The inside is either fleece or suedecloth. There's a middle layer of microfiber or hemp inside of the diaper. They're a bit thicker than you're average disposable, but hey...what's a little extra padding gonna hurt, especially on a little one who wil be crashing often as he learns to walk? Because the microfiber absorbs the moisture, the fleece against baby's skin stays dry, so there's no need to worry about wet skin & rashes.

There are no rubber pants. There's nothing to swish in the toilet or soak in a bucket of bleach water. In fact, I take the diaper off of Alex and dump it straight into here:

Every other day, I take the hamper, dump it over the washer, do a cold rinse & then a hot wash with another cold rinse , then hang the diapers to dry. (If I'm in a hurry or feeling lazy, I'll toss them in the dryer). There's no bleach involved; you just use a mild detergent. When he's bigger, you just shake any mess into the toilet, put the diaper in the hamper, and continue like above. I tried it with the little girls I babysat before Alex was born...no problems whatsoever.

We currently have 18 diapers and 24 cloth wipes. I wish I had 24 diapers, too. 18 is cutting it close for washing every other day. I'd really like to buy 2 more diapers each month for the next 3 months.

Here are the cloth wipes, in case you're curious. They are flannel on one side, velour on the other. I just keep a squeeze bottle with water & a little bit of Baby Bees baby bath, spray a little on the cloth wipe, and use that. I actually truly HATE the disposable wipes now that I've tried these! I keep the cloth wipes in the small basket on the right hand side of this picture. (The disposables & disposable wipes in the big basket are for Daddy diaper changes, by the way. He hasn't attempted cloth yet, and that's okay. We just like that he is a good, helpful Daddy. I often put a disposable on Alex at bedtime, too. Thanks, Grandma Purdy, for the disposables! They DO get used!)


I decided to use cloth for three reasons: environment, cost, and... ya just can't forget cuteness!

Environment If you "Google" disposable diapers, you'll find a ton of statistics on disposable diapers. For example, it takes 500 years - Yes, 500 - for a disposable diaper to break down in a landfill. Multiply that by an average 50 diapers per week for each baby in the US. That's a lot of diapers! That's a lot of space in the landfill! As far as water usage, water is used in the manufacturing process for disposables. To my understanding, it's comparable to the amount of water used to wash cloth diapers.

Cost I figured that the minimum amount you can spend on diapers/wipes per month is $50. That comes to $600 per year. Multiply that by 2.5 years, and you're spending $1500 on diapers. I've spent $350 on diapers and wipes that can be reused indefinitely. I might spend another $100 over the next year. That's less than the cost of one year of disposables! They can be reused for future children, too.

Two kids in disposables = $3000
Two kids in cloth = $450 (plus the cost of detergent & electricity)

Cuteness Okay, there's nothing wrong with a disposable, and I use them from time to time. Cloth diapers can be oh-so-cute, though! I love to look at Alex's cute little heiny all covered in fluff! :) You can choose colors for the outside & inside fabric, choose to put a print fabric on the outside, or choose to have a picture embroidered on it. Right now, Alex's diapers are all plain colored on the outside, but I want to have one or two "fun" diapers.

Go to http://www.chunkymonkeydiapers.com/ to see how to make your own "fun" diaper.
We also use "BumGenius" diapers and "FuzziBunz" diapers.
Google either of those if you're curious...
(or if you want to support our "green-ness" and buy us some cute dipes! Ha ha!)

Thus ends Dawn's public service announcement on the benefits of cloth diapering.
We now return you to your regularly-scheduled programming *Ü*

Edited: By the way, I'd LOVE to hear people's comments on this one! :)

Stupid Bottles!

I don't know who utters those words more vehemently - Mommy or Alex. All I know is that both of us wholeheartedly HATE bottles at this point.

Whatever the case, it's not worth it to me. It's only a year, and I want to enjoy that year. I know the time flies by too quickly; it's obvious already! I want to enjoy every moment of this year. (Although some moments, you have to remind yourself to enjoy! Ha!)

I love nursing him. I hate struggling with bottles. Alex and I "fight" all day long. There's no way to enjoy your baby when he's screaming with hunger and milk is drooling down his shirt.

We keep trying, think we've got it figured out, and then...failure. He won't take a bottle when it's needed.

Anyway, this week is it. I'm putting my all into the bottle thing this week...blood, sweat, and tears. (MANY tears...just ask Keith!) I have to say that I gave it my best shot. If it doesn't work by Friday evening, then sorry...we're sorry, Grandmas...but there won't be any babysitting going on for quite some time. If Alex isn't willingly taking a bottle by Friday evening, that's it. I'm done. I now have Keith's blessing on that, too. It's just not worth the fight.

NO COMMENTS on this post, please...on blogger or in person.
I'm not talking bottles with anyone from this point on.
It's a cause of stress, and I'm done with it.

Got that?

Good.

(Can you tell it's been quite a day?)

Friday, April 4, 2008

Hey, Good Lookin'

Guess who discovered his reflection this week? He's sooooo cute! This can go on for 5 - 10 minutes now. I know I'm posting too many pictures, but I couldn't decide which was my favorite...so you get all of 'em. *Ü*




Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Lunch With Jen

(Can you tell today is "catch up" day?)

Jen Schaap hasn't met Alex yet. How pathetic is that? She's one of my very good friends, and I haven't seen her since...ummm...November? Why'd she have to go & move to Joliet? She should move to NW Indiana!

So, on Saturday we met in Merrillville for lunch at Baker's Square. We had a great time chatting & Alex got to snuggle with his Auntie Jen. We would have spent more time together, done a little shopping, and had a fun afternoon, but...well...ask Keith about his keys. His keys enjoyed lunch with me at Baker's Square while Keith was stuck at home waiting for me to return! I'm lucky he still loves me, lol! ;)

Here's a picture of Jen with Alex & a picture of Alex wearing his new outfit from Auntie Jen.

Grandma & Grandpa

Grandma & Grandpa Schurman came for a visit on Friday. Every time they've seen Alex lately, he's been Mr. Fussypants. They wanted to spend a little quality happy time with him, and they got their wish. Alex was a good boy! :)

His changing table is amazing. It's not only for changing diapers; it also changes moods. Alex can be in a rotten mood, and 9 out of 10 times, he'll be "fixed" just by setting him on the changing table. Instantly, he's happy!

By the way, Grandma, you make EXCELLENT pie! YUM!